It involves making excuses, or maybe even denying responsibility. Transcript Chris: Like you never yelled at me before, I don't care. The Focus on the Family Marriage Assessment is designed to evaluate the strength of 12 essential traits of your marriage. Contempt can fall into this category of, "I just don't like you.
They're very destructive patterns and they built upon each other and what happens is they sabotage this couple's ability to communicate, which is why it landed in the communication area.
The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference, and you will not be indifferent to me. What we need to do is another podcast, and I think we ought to, on the topic of gratitude. If his research is true, I'm only recognizing maybe 2, 2 and a half of those 5 interactions and that's causing massive problems.
Last week we began a study about the fact that if we are two believers that God has brought together in marriage, He brought us together to serve Him and others. Serving as a couple has benefits that go beyond bonding, contentment and peace.