You could also opt in for a free e-course. Sex is the way he connects. We share a sense of humour, talk often and holiday together. The constant buzzing of the world dies down.
For one, I hated keeping track of dates on a calendar. This means soft touches. To make sure that your long-term partner stays satisfied sexually, you need to be the facilitator of a paradigm shift. I was getting a manicure the first time I learned that not all wives want to, ahem, go for a roll in the hay with their husbands.
Their unfair, and frankly, deeply flawed marital criticism is rooted in years of oppression against women.